BBQ package for Him AND Her!!!

If you love to BBQ but hate that it is lady repellant then this weekend may be for you.  The BBQ Bootcamp:

For over 60 years the Alisal has treated grilling as a fine art and now our executive chef Pascal Godé, with the help of legendary Grill Master and Hitching Post II owner, Frank Ostini, will help you hone your grilling skills.
Morning sessions will cover all the aspects of BBQ from the best way to start a fire to what to do with spice rubs; afternoons are free for horseback riding, golf or a visit to the spa; and evenings give you a chance to interact with local guest chefs and winemakers who will be on hand to create feasts designed to further fire-up your grilling passions.

When you propose the idea stress the word "spa," and remind her that there is an "Executive Chef" which is normally not associated with BBQ, and, AND! that he/she has a frenchy name.

When you come back please tell me what "traditional Santa Maria-style BBQ" is.